Besides, he too with pleasure expects appearance of the child.
However at heart the husband feels superfluous, just as the little boy considers himself outcast when learns that in a family there will be a new child soon.
Externally this hidden feeling of uselessness is shown in irritability in relation to the wife, in aspiration to spend much time outdoors, in courting for other women.
Thus, the wife appears the deprived support of the husband just when it most of all needs it; after all she enters a new, unfamiliar stage of the life.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->
Sometimes the woman who is afraid to lose the husband, wants to accept the child in vain hope that it will keep love in a family.
Adoption of the child for the similar reasons not only is dishonest in relation to it.
Usually it is wrong and for parents.
Quite often adopted child who was loved not really, becomes then difficult.
It is usually unreasonable to lonely person to adopt the child because both boys, and girls need influence of both parents.
Besides, the lonely person can focus too much attention on the child.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->
What can be finer than the child who is openheartedly ready to share with us, parents, everything, what at him boiled in soul?
Of course, all this difficultly and demands time.
But many whom I met, told how they, parents, left this difficult contradiction: need to pay close attention to children and a lack of time.
For example, the writer Joe Bailey allocated certain days in the weekly when it was occupied only with family affairs, and these days politely refused all other invitations to lectures, performances and so forth.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->
Finishing chapter and conversation on difficulties of teenage age, I want to remind once again what to start transferring to the child the cultural wealth best of all at early stages of his life.
Children as sponges, they absorb in themselves all knowledge which present to them.
It is obvious that if at early stages of life they get positive emotional, physical, intellectual and spiritual experience, it is more probable that subsequently they will become fullfledged members of society.
The main condition for this purpose unconditional love.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->
there can be such paint, and also when repainting furniture, etc.
; varnish just for decoration; lye and other alkaline connections used for disinfection; toxic chemicals for plants; powders for cleaning of stoves.
Now it is a high time to make the most strict inspection of your apartment.
Try to see her eyes of the child.
Clean all drugs.
Find safe places for household chemicals, shoepolish, ink, cigarettes, tobacco, substances for spraying of plants.
Keep toxic agents in separate lockers or on shelves, far away from the harmless drugs and substances eaten hurriedly not to grab something not that.. . . . . Читать полностью -->
But, of course, if does not calm down and everything cries more strongly, you should get up.
But try to do the same in a month.
After months if there is an opportunity, place the child to the certain room.
The child since the birth can sleep in the certain room if it is convenient to you and if you is rather close to hear its crying.
If in the beginning its bed is in the room of parents, at month age it is desirable to move the child to other room.
I would not recommend to leave the child for the night in the room of parents after months.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->
If you about one year gave to the child only digestible vegetables, after a year try less popular and it is more difficult usvoyaemy vegetables: cabbage including color, turnip, parsnip.
Their sharp taste can be softened, having welded them in two waters.
Some children like these vegetables, and they well digest them, other children refuse even to try them.
The corn in grains is given only after years.
Absolutely small children swallow of corn without chewing, and it leaves with a stake undigested.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->